DO NOT FORGET
useless phrase in my view.
The ability to forgive is based on 95% of "knowing how to forget." Forgiveness is easy and yet complex.
Years ago a friend told me to be happy was to know forget. When I said I understood perfectly. But over the years I realize the size of that sentence and has more truth and wisdom than I had anticipated. Forget is very important to know when to live without negative emotional charges. What do you have to forget? The bitterness, resentment, hatred, revenge, selfishness, etc. Hating someone, resentment and anger have no more to slave and become victims of what or who we hate. The object of our hatred and bitterness can live quite happily knowing that we eat slowly. Sometimes forgotten is terribly difficult. But it is the only way to heal the emotional wounds inflicted on us life. We must make these wounds in scars. Yes, sometimes too painful scars. If we can heal our wounds, we are on the right track. Do not forget the lessons learned from the mistakes of the experiences. It should not be unnecessarily exposed either. There are people asking for forgiveness and repeats his mistakes. Forgive but not forget is to live emotionally stuck in the muck. Furthermore, it is even physically sick.
Unforgiveness makes no progress or evolve. Who does not forgive the grudge lives buried and never completely happy.
Forgive and forget is not living in a delusion. Be aware of "what will be next?" or "the first that I do something ..." a waste of time, besides living in a constant psychological tension.
Of course it is free to not wanting to forgive. Like many things in life is a personal choice. To say that is forgiven and forgotten is not living a lie. Living self-punishment. If it is not to forgive is not forgiven, period.
He who makes a mistake, a mistake and damages must be honest enough to step back and recognize the pain. Asking forgiveness is not so difficult. It's uncomfortable and a kind of self-attack, the ego, pride. But if you're wrong, fix it. If you forgive is wonderful. But when you do not forgive you created an uncertain situation. What can we do? I am finding that not much. If you do not want to forgive ... because you can not force situations. Is that person who chooses to live with a very heavy emotional slab. Maybe someday realize. Maybe not. Looking back can only cause you to fall in the way of life.
Ask forgiveness and humility go hand in hand ...
Humility is never a sign of weakness, on the contrary, exalts the spirit. Forgive and forget
go hand in hand ...
If you extend your hand in search of forgiveness and find a gap, you have no choice but to follow your path. For now what I'm doing ... Maybe one day I found the answer.
is better to forgive and forget. Libera. Gives wings. Forgiveness from the heart is another form of love.
DEDICATED TO THOSE WHO DO NOT SHRINKING THE TIME TO ASK FORGIVENESS. DEDICATED TO FORGIVE YOU KNOW. DEDICATED TO THOSE WHO KNOW HOW TO LOVE. Besos